Images

Everyone has an image. Wheather it's good or bad that is up to you. Wheather it's soft and kind or it's mean and aggressive. But the thing is is that you hide behind that image. And pretty soon you let that image decide for you. And then after awhile it becomes a part of you. Under that image is the real you which you don't want anyone to see. You either don't like the person you are or your scared you'll get made fun of or something like that. Some people only show he real them to their loved ones, and sometimes some people keep hiding behind that image the rest of their lives. But that is their choice. Bottom line is.... Don't be afraid to be who you are. Who you are is who you are. God made you that way and you yourself is a precious work of art. But some of you don't realize that. You really need to. Because you can be so much more then you see with your own eyes. Try looking at yourself through someone elses eyes and then tell me that you aren't precius or worth anything. You will find that you are just as important to them. And that you will be so much more that you never thought possible in that person's eyes. So stop hiding.

The Most Common Situation

Now a lot of you that follow me on this blog know who I am and that I'm very good at giving advice so here is yet again another piece of advice for you. I have a friend that was shy and really liked this girl. So he came to me for help. I told him my opion and gave him some courage. The girl also came to me asking for help because she liked him. But on the other hand the girl was very discouraged about herself. So I gave her some advice that I thought would work. She kind of changed it though because she tends to be stubborn. But it did work. And now that they are both on the same page it's a lot easier for them. I know that the guy is a great guy with his true gentleman side hiding inside of him waiting to be unleashed. And I know that inside the girl is a young mature woman who is hiding inside her waiting to be unleashed too. I wish them both the best. I know that those to will go far. Now the point of this entry is that if you need help about a certain situation don't be afraid to ask for help. Especially the people you trust. That's what they are there for. You live and you learn. You learn from you mistakes. And from those mistakes you grow. So techniclly we never stop growing. Were always learning no matter where we are, or where we go.

Cinderella

I know that there are some people out there who want some advice about prince charming. No I'm not going to mention any names and embarress the people. But if you guys want some serious advice. Base your relationship on honesty, spirtual, or both. Trust me it works. And if the guy is not right for you then he's not who god wanted you to be with. It was just what I call them a lesson that was learned that god wanted you to learn. Even though it can happen over and over and over again and it's the same lesson. God feels like you didn't get the lesson all those other times. Or sometimes god wants you to look at only this part of the lesson for now. Like for example cheating. Let's say that prince charming was cheating on you with Repunzel. And you wanted to work it out. You didn't want to break up. You have to be willing to commit fully to a relationship in order to overcome any problems that you have as a couple. And if one's weaker and doesn't want to commit. You guys will have more problems. Let's say prince charming didn't want to commit. But you didn't want to break up and he did. You'd need to make him see your point and then you'll have to see his point. Then both of you have to come up with a compromise. A compromise is something where the both of you have to meet in the middle not just meet on one side but in the middle. But sometimes guys just don't like to listen and they want everything their way or no way at all. I'm sorry but if you have a guy like that. Get rid of him. He is not worth it. There is so much that your missing because your wasting your time on him. You'd be better off without him. You know he's not the right guy for you so if you stay with him your prince charming could slip right through your fingers just because your dating someone else at the moment. And then you might never get your prince charming. You might get someone close. But not the exact right one. Take marrige as my last example. People get married more then once right? Do you know why? Because that person changed. That person wasn't the right prince charming that that person thought they were. That's the other thing to watch for people are very deciveing now a days. That's what you have to watch for. I hope my advice helps those of you who asked for it, and those of you who need it, and those of you who just look at my blog just because. I really wish you guys the best. And thanks for all the love and support. You guys are the best. Good Luck! <3